Do we have to be a married couple to enjoy the club?
You'll be welcomed whether you're married or living with your significant other. If not married you should, however, have a history together and familiarity with each others' emotional needs, and be comfortable approaching others as a "couple." Today's world has changed dramatically from just a few years ago. Marriage is not a condition of belonging. Club Inspiration is for male/female couples only. You must be of legal age and both of you need to be mature.

Do you accept singles?
Yes, single women only. It is recommended that single woman come to the club the first time with a couple but it is not required. Single woman may join for personal pleasure only and not for any commercial gain. Soliciting sexual favors in return for money or other considerations is illegal and prohibited in the club. Single woman must also be careful to make their intentions clear to other couples and not encourage one partner to meet privately without the consent of the other partner.

What is the smoking policy of Club Inspiration?
We are basically a non-smoking club, where guests are required to smoke in a designated smoking area. All other areas are non-smoking. Due consideration for other guests is expected and required.

Do we swap partners, or what?
You never have to do anything that you do not want. There are as many variations as there are participants. Every couple makes their own rules as their level of comfort dictates. Some couples freely engage in sexual activity with others with or without their partner present Others don't engage in sexual activity with anyone else, but enjoy the voyeuristic and exhibitionistic aspects of the club. You'll have to ask, and you're responsible for letting others know what your particular preferences are with other couples. And, the rules seem to change depending on the situation, so always ask politely before pressing on. Use common sense, be nice, and you'll most likely find a receptive partner to play with. The club scenario allows for sexual interaction, but the socialization with like-minded couples is of more significance, given the setting, the shared conversations, and the many activities couples can engage in.

Do we have to be active in the lifestyle to join?
NO! Many couples who have joined us are just looking for a little extra excitement to spice up their own relationship. Some are active in the lifestyle. Some couples are exhibitionists, others are voyeurs, some are into fetish wear. Yet, they all share one thing in common, they are all open minded and tolerant of everyone. This club will suit those who would enjoy meeting other couples in the lifestyle and enjoying their company with no expectations of getting physical, unless of course there is that spark!

Do we have to be club members to visit the club?
Yes, Club Inspiration is a private membership club. We are not open to the general public. Admission is only open to members of Club Inspiration. Membership fees are posted in the membership page.

Can you go nude there?
Yes. Woman are always welcome to go nude anywhere in the club. However man can not go nude in the main dance area. Because the lifestyle is a woman rule society the woman will set the tempo. Woman are encourage to dress sexy in lingerie or to go topless or totally nude as they may feel comfortable doing. Men on the other hand are expected to dress to impress especially in the main dance area. Remember there are always new members joining whom are new to the lifestyle and need time to become comfortable with others - care must be taken not to offend anyone.

What are the people like and what are their ages?
They are like you and me. They want to relax and enjoy the erotic ambiance, shared with like-minded couples who are more than likely of the very friendly and sociable sort. From our observation we would say that the ages run mostly from 30 to 50 with exceptions to both sides.

What is the right time of the year to meet other couples or is there season?

Swinging and sexy getaways to Club Inspiration are not restricted to times of the year nor is it a seasonal thing. There is no High season for swinging activities, no Low season. Of course the cub is only open on Saturdays but special events can be booked for other days of the week.

We don't speak fluent English or Spanish..?
As a couple you can understand each other: that is important. At Club Inspiration English and Spanish is the predominant language amongst our members. Keeping in mind that many of our members are bilingual in English and Spanish. Whatever your language we are sure the Staff and the other guests will happily find a way to ensure you have a wonderful visit.

How do we get a group together?
Create your FREE profile on clubinspiration and start contacting other club members. It is free and easy. Also sign up on Club Inspiration Yahoogroup and post an announcement. Let people know when you are planning to come out to the club and invite them to meet you at the club. Invite your friends and make it a party. This is what Club Inspiration is all about.

What does "swinger" really mean? Does it mean that we have to physically interact with other people?
Not at all. You and your partner decide what you want to do - or not do. A recent study showed that about 70% of all couples who visit (or attend) swinger clubs enjoy the erotic atmosphere, but don't want to interact with others in changing or swapping partners. All lifestylers must obey the rules of no pressure, no obligations and no means NO.

Why should we consider joining you?
There are many good reasons. Maybe the most important one is that we have made Club Inspiration geared to the pleasure of our friends and ourselves. We know how it has to be for everyone to be comfortable and enjoy themselves. If you enjoy a relaxed, laid-back no pressure atmosphere and at the same time, adventurous erotic ambiance with other like-minded couples, then you should come and join us.

Who stands behind this lifestyle club?
Real people who live and work here in the valley. Club Inspiration is operated under the concept that all members have a vested interest in the cub. Members take care of each other and the club. Suggestions for improvements are always made and each members sees that all members are having a good time. We all want to have a good time and want members to return again and again.

Are our names ever given out?
NO! Your name, address and phone number are personal and kept confidential. We never give them out to other members without first getting your permission and we do not sell our mailing lists. EVER!

Are drugs common at lifestyle events?
NO. Any illegal substances applicable to the country, are prohibited, of course, at any responsible swing club, cruise or resort (including this one). The lifestyle is its own pleasure, couples don't need to dilute it. And don't subject yourself and others to any legal problems. And do not risk having your membership revoked and cancel due to illegal behavior. All illegal drugs will be report to local police.

Can we be up front about our sexual desires?
Yes by all means be up-front. It is essential that everyone know up-front what they are getting into. You could save everyone from a potentially embarrassing situation later on. Also find out about everyone's limits. Socialize with the other guests before attempting any sexualizing!

Remember, you're under no obligation at any time to exceed your own comfort level. One of the great things about the lifestyle is that it encourages people to communicate openly and honestly. You shouldn't feel pressured in any way to do, say, or feel anything you're genuinely uncomfortable with. You have the rest of your life to become comfortable and find your own level of participation, so take things slowly, don't allow yourself to be pressured or rushed into anything. There's nothing worse than walking away unhappy, offended, or feeling guilty. And always remember, you can say No at any time and put the brakes on immediately.

Someone will probably approach you at some point. The same rules of acceptable social behavior apply. If someone that you are not interested in approaches you, all you have to do is say "No, thank you." Most people will respect your wishes and move on. If you've been rebuffed, don't take it personally. Just as with any situation, be polite, gracious, and you'll find someone to play with. And the more polite, friendly, and gracious you are, the more people you will find that are open to your overtures. If you are rude, obnoxious, and over-bearing and you will be asked to leave by management.

What if I find myself in an uncomfortable situation?
If a couple or a situation make you feel ill-at-ease, perhaps it's the time to invoke the rule of "NO Thank You". You should never feel pressured into doing anything you are not comfortable doing. You're here to have fun. Being forced is NO FUN. So if anyone persists, talk to the host or management of the club.

What if you run into someone you know?
Running into someone you know is one of the biggest worries many people have before they come out to their first club event. Afterwards it becomes less of an issue as you quickly see that everyone is there for the same reasons and is of the same honest and open temperament, and as a result

A) there are no "repercussions" within the lifestyle and

B) no one else is going to spill the beans to outsiders about seeing you there because they are equally concerned about their own discretion too!

This becomes even more apparent after you do in fact meet someone whom you know, because both your and their first reaction is always "I never would have expected to see you here". The reality is: although many people often run into others they know from the outside world at lifestyle events, it virtually never proves to be an issue, and often they become new closer friends as a result.

What is included and what are the additional costs ?
There are no additional cost. Included with your door donation is a very nice buffet table with a variety of entrees and veggies. Your choice of soft drinks and juices and waters. Set ups are available. You have full use of the dungeon, darkroom, private rooms and of course dancing to DJ music is available. There are sexy games and other activities plan at each different night or simply relax with your friends and enjoy a good evening.

What happens to naughty boys ?
The atmosphere at the club has been described as social and classy rather than over-the-top or wild, and we expect that other guests are treated as such. Drunk and disorderly behavior is not tolerated; if such a case were to arise we would escort out and ask you to leave or have someone take you home. Illegal activities will be reported to the local police.

Of interest to men...
Wandering around by yourself attempting to find a woman who wants to have sex is considered inappropriate and offensive.
Please remember to converse with both members of a couple you and your partner are interested in, not just the partner you are interested in having sex with; ultimately it's your ability to form friendships with couples which will determine the quality of your experience in the lifestyle community.

What is the tipping mechanism?
Tipping is not required. But keep in mind that host couples and staff members are volunteers and not paid. Show your appreciation for the work they do. Also tips help with the laundry and replacement cost of the sheets and towels. No preset suggestion amounts are set. Just give what you feel is appropriate. It is a matter of individual preference. All tips are appreciated. Thank you.

General hints for enjoyable couples-only parties:
1) Couples need not be married. They should, however, have a history together and familiarity with each others' emotional needs, and be comfortable approaching others as a "couple." The general rule of thumb is that any interaction works best when couples view their lifestyle as an enhancement to their good, existing sexual relationship, rather than as a replacement for a failing one.
As one would expect, good communication is critical in any attempt at swinging as a couple. There are many, many different forms that swinging may take, and whichever one you choose is fine as long as you and your partner are clear about what you are doing and why. Sex has the potential to be an emotionally-charged area, and the pleasures that may be found in swinging can generally be reached only when both partners are sensitive to each others' needs, and put their partners comfort first. From a more pragmatic point of view, there will always be another party, another swingers cruise, another dance, another convention; there may not be another chance to salvage an exploration into swinging if one partner becomes overwhelmed in "the garden of delights" and forgets to treat his or her primary partner with sensitivity and respect.

2) It's important to keep in mind that this lifestyle is primarily a social activity. The ordinary social customs of meeting people and initiating a conversation are really not that different than at any other type of social gathering, and the process by which acquaintances become close friends is not that different either. The key social traits that tend to be appreciated in the swinging community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most importantly stability with regard to one's primary relationship.
As is the case with almost all human social endeavors, if you already know people in a particular community you'll probably be happier if you attend your first few lifestyle events and holidays with these people so they can introduce you to others. Waiting a little while and watching how others behave is also a good idea, as it is in almost any new social situation. Common courtesy, of course, is as welcome as it is in any other community; we're all just people, after all.

3) There are several different styles of swinging which you may see at the club. Some people may prefer not to be around when their partner is having sex with someone else ("open swinging"), while others may insist on it ("closed swinging"). The term "soft swinging" refers to trading partners just for the purposes of heavy petting and then switching back to one's primary partner for any actual sex. Then there are those couples who have not even reached the stage of any physical interaction with other couples at all. It might be valuable for you to think about whether there are any potential situations that you feel you would be more or less comfortable in, and discuss these with your partner.
Although not all couples find it necessary to do this, some couples feel more comfortable having social "codes" that only the two of them know. Examples might be discreet phrases or gestures which mean a) one of you is attracted to the people or person he or she is talking to and wants to know if you are interested in taking things further with them, b) a reply to the above, either affirmatively or negatively, and c) one of you is not having a good time and wants to get away from things for a while.

4) Dress at most clothing-optional hotels, cruises and events tends to be more casual, since nudity is a common outcome of the evening for many. At clubs it's a good idea to bring something like a robe so you don't have to put all your clothes back on, and to avoid wearing lots of jewelry that might get lost. If there's a dress theme for a particular event, go with the theme.

5) By the way, it is not necessary to actually have sex with other people to have a good time in the lifestyle community. Activities can provide a wonderful opportunity to flirt and be flirted with in a non-threatening yet sensually-charged atmosphere, which can be fun in and of itself. Sexy games, ice-breakers and related activities at the club can provide an opportunity to appreciate the sights and sounds of seduction as an enhancement to sex with your primary partner, whether you two decide to have sex later is purely up to you.